Day9 2023/12/28 我要记住很多的爱

day9 2023/12/28

人生第一次被撞车，需要记住很多的爱

今天真的是乐极生悲，本来和小儿子在乐高一直玩到天黑，小朋友开心到飞起，在回家路上，好好的，突然间隔壁道上的车突然变道，插到我前面，我来不及踩刹车，他车刮倒了我车子驾驶员这边的侧脸，只听到砰的一声，我副驾驶上的包直接飞下来，我儿子大叫了一声，然后那个始作俑者居然开离了现场，我赶紧停稳车，打了双闪，掏出手机拍了那个肇事车的车牌！

对方看到我用手机拍照，在离我10米的地方把车停稳，下来两个高大的印度裔男人，当时已经7点多，路上车不多，采光也不好，然后他们就用英语给我说，叫我把车开离现场，这样不安全！我觉得没有分好责任之前我不能离开现场，然后我就问他们要驾照，保险，然后开始给朋友打电话！

在这里我要用我最真挚的心感谢我的几位朋友！我的最最亲爱的邻居兼闺蜜，你用最温柔的方式安抚我的惊慌，给我出主意，然后喊着老公立马出发开车来事发地给我撑腰！真的给了我无穷的力量和支持！让我惊慌失措的心立马安定下来！我告诉自己，冷静，朋友马上就到了，我不是一个人面对两个大男人！

还有另外一位朋友，一直用电话以我家人的名义和对方协商是私了还是报保险，你那么细心，睿智，不慌不忙，据理力争，让对方从一开始的不认账，到最后写下是他自己变道撞到我的车，愿意承担全部责任，解决问题，并提供了保险和驾照！给我解决了这个事情发生后最棘手麻烦的问题！谢谢你，谈笑风生就把事情解决得如此圆满！

而我终于也拍好了所有应该现场采集的照片，等来了朋友，在朋友夫妻的陪伴下安全回家！然后，我的这几位朋友又一起聚在我家，商量着后来的理赔各种细节！总而言之，在几个好朋友的帮助下，很圆满的解决这个突发事件！

在这里，我要深深的感恩，感谢有你们，在异国他乡，让我感觉如此温暖，被关爱，被呵护！有你们在，让我充满了安全感！老话说得好，在家靠父母，出门靠朋友，谢谢你们，我的朋友们.

  当然，我也要表扬一下自己的沉着，冷静，没有惊慌失措，头脑清醒！该保留证据保留，该找帮手找帮手！

在这里我还要谢谢我七岁的小儿子，全程一个小时，没有任何怨言的陪伴妈妈，没有哭闹，就像一个小大人一样，一直在告诉我，妈妈，我没事，我不怕！妈妈，我陪着你！谢谢你儿子，你给了妈妈无穷的力量！

同时，我也要谢谢远隔重洋的姜先生，打电话知道我车被撞了，第一句话问，人有没有事，然后说，人没事就好，照顾好小孩，让他不要害怕！我知道，因为物理上的距离，有些事情你没有办法，但是我知道，在你心里，什么才是最重要的

    所谓锦上添花容易，雪中送炭难，也许这个事情在生命的长河里不算什么，但是我永远记得这个临近新年的冬夜，我的朋友们让我的心滚烫到炙热！外面冷冷的，心热热的，甜甜的！我觉得无比温暖，无比幸福！我是个幸运的人，有人这样的爱我！我很珍惜！

The first time in my life I've been in a car accident, needing to remember much love.

Today was truly a rollercoaster of emotions. Originally, I was playing with my youngest son at the LEGO land until it got dark. The little one was ecstatic, but on our way back home, everything was fine until suddenly a car from the adjacent lane suddenly veered into my lane, cutting me off. I couldn't hit the brakes in time, and their car scraped the driver's side of my car. There was a loud bang, and my bag from the passenger seat flew down. My son shouted out in fear. Shockingly, the person who caused the accident fled the scene. I quickly pulled over, turned on my hazard lights, and took a picture of the culprit's license plate with my phone!

Upon seeing me taking a picture with my phone, the other party, two tall Indian men, stopped their car about 10 meters away from me. It was already past 7 PM, not many cars on the road, and the lighting was poor. They spoke to me in English, asking me to drive away from the scene as it was unsafe. I felt that I couldn't leave until the responsibility was established. So, I asked them for their driver's licenses and insurance details, then began calling my friends!

Here, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to several friends of mine! My dearest neighbor and best friend, you comforted my panic in the gentlest way possible, gave me advice, and immediately called your husband to come and support me at the scene! You truly gave me immense strength and support! You calmed my panicked heart! I told myself to stay calm, my friend would arrive soon, and I wouldn't be facing these two big men alone!

Another friend of mine continuously negotiated with the other party over the phone on behalf of my family, discussing whether to settle privately or report to insurance. You were so attentive, wise, composed, and argued logically. You made the other party, who initially denied fault, eventually admit to changing lanes and hitting my car, willing to take full responsibility, resolving the issue and providing insurance and driver's license details! You solved the most troublesome problem for me after this incident! Thank you for handling the situation so smoothly and brilliantly!

Finally, I managed to take all the necessary photos at the scene and when my friend arrived, accompanied by their spouse, we safely returned home! Then, these friends gathered at my house again, discussing the details of the subsequent claims! In short, with the help of several good friends, this sudden incident was satisfactorily resolved!

Here, I deeply appreciate and thank you all! In a foreign land, you've made me feel so warm, cared for, and protected! With you all around, I feel secure! As the saying goes, at home, one relies on their parents; outside, one relies on friends. Thank you, my friends.

Of course, I also want to commend my own composure, calmness, and clear-headedness. Preserve evidence when needed, seek help when needed!

I also want to thank my seven-year-old son, who, throughout the whole hour, accompanied his mother without a single complaint, without crying or making a fuss. He behaved like a little adult, constantly reassuring me, 'Mom, I'm fine, I'm not afraid! Mom, I'm here with you!' Thank you, son, you gave Mom endless strength!

At the same time, I want to thank Mr. Jiang, who's far away overseas. Upon hearing that my car was hit, his first question was about my well-being. He said, 'As long as you're okay, take care of the kid, make sure he's not scared!' I know, due to the physical distance, there are things you can't do, but I know in your heart, what truly matters.

It's easy to add to someone's joy but difficult to help in times of trouble. Perhaps, in the course of life, this incident might not mean much, but I'll always remember this winter night close to the New Year when my friends made my heart burn with warmth! It was cold outside, but my heart was warm and sweet! I feel immensely warm and happy! I'm a fortunate person to be loved like this! i cherish a lot[Heart]