I must change the way first

These days there's always something that can drink me crazy , In the final analysis, it's a matter of personal problem , which is that there's distance between the reality and my expectations , especially when I heard the louder words to me from my daughter , she wasn't satisfied with me so much that she always complained many things in front of me , tonight I told her to express her ideas in a peaceful tone , then I can understand her better , or I would get mad hearing of her petulance , meanwhile I hugged her and told her I loved her , usually we'd love to have meet kids , we hope they could always follow us , but in fact , if they follow us instead of listening to their own ideas and say out their thoughts , they will lose themselves sooner or later , so I hope they can say out , but in a better way .

Of course , I should change my way to talk to them , perhaps they just learned the way I talked to them .