接纳不完美的自己（48）Accept the Imperfect Self (48）

任何消极的事情都有积极的一面，老话说得好：“聪明人把经历当成老师，傻瓜把精力当成敌人。”世界是矛盾的统一体，如果没有消极的一面，积极的一面也就无从存在，如果我们能够理解这一点，就更容易接受现实。我们所经历过的每一件细微小事，每一个不眠的夜晚，流下的每一滴眼泪，都成就了今天这个独一无二的我。没有任何人能够完全像你一样说话，完全像你一样做每一件事情。你就是你，我们每个人都是独一无二的，都会经历一场独一无二的人生之旅。

Every negative thing has a positive side. As the old saying goes, "wise people regard experience as a teacher, and fools regard energy as an enemy." The world is a unity of contradictions. If there is no negative side, there is no positive side. If we can understand this, it will be easier to accept reality. Every little thing we have experienced, every sleepless night, and every drop of tears we shed, have made me who I am today. No one can speak and do everything exactly like you. You are you. Each of us is unique and will experience a unique life journey.