每日一书 2023/12/22

day3 2023/12/22

艾米，谢谢你今天准备的充满仪式感的饺子和冬至大餐，用你自己的方式尽可能给孩子创造更多家庭的温暖，生活的意义！

谢谢你又一次战胜了自己的惰性，坚持去健身房锻炼身体，然后也保持了健康的饮食！我觉得这是心志坚毅的一种表现！

谢谢你，我的大Michael，妈妈很喜欢你第一时间跟我分享你在学校发生的事情！我感受到了，当你提到老师跟你握手时你眼神中的兴奋和快乐！被你尊敬的师长，平等的对待，对于一个14岁的男孩来说，应该是一件非常快乐的事情吧！是一种男人之间的信任，肯定！

当你提到学校同学间恶作剧的坏影响时，妈妈能感受到你的心有余悸，你一定在为那个陷于困境的孩子担心，妈妈很高兴你没有只是当一个旁观者，而是设身处地去思考了这个问题，从而得出了有用的经验，比如，不能无脑冲动行事，要三思而后行，做事之前想一想，可能发生的后果能否承担！这件事情让妈妈觉得你真的是大孩子了，学会了为自己的行为负责任！还有，很重要的一点，你学会了从别人的二手经验中去学习成长，妈妈觉得这是我们成长为一个聪明人路上的重要方法！恭喜你，找到了这个方法！引以为戒，有则改之 无则加勉！希望你一直记得这些人生的聪明法则！

谢谢你，Michael，妈妈很高兴你对自己的假期有安排，当你自信地跟我说，假期你准备好好突击钢琴，法语， 还有一个什么，sorry，妈妈记性不好，突然想不起来！妈妈觉得你真的明白了学习是为了自己！此刻定下了目标，接下来就要拿出行之有效的方法去实现目标，妈妈相信你一定会列出一个妥善的具体的schedule！

再一次谢谢你，妈妈给你提意见的时候，你第一时间接受了，道歉了，反思了，还说以后要double check，妈妈很高兴，觉的我们这样就是一个高效率的，有用的沟通，你也理解了妈妈，我指出这些细节是让你意识到那些，你自己意识不到的问题存在，然后你自己去决定要不要改变，怎么改变，妈妈相信你能得到最大程度的成长！总而言之，妈妈就在这里，需要帮助，你就跟我说，如果觉得妈妈的某些行为让你不舒服了，你也可以直接告诉我！我们都可以变得更好！我们家也会变得更加充满爱，我相信，这会是我们喜欢的家庭氛围！

Nathan，妈妈要谢谢你，注意到妈妈不舒服，立刻给妈妈倒了维C水，让妈妈感受到了来自儿子的关心和爱！

今天做圣诞树特别认真，做出来的树非常漂亮，妈妈觉得很不可思议呢

此刻，深夜静悄悄的，隐隐有儿子们的呼吸，心情平和而安定！爱你们！一切刚刚好！

Amy, thank you for the ceremonial dumplings and the Winter Solstice feast you prepared today, trying in your own way to create more warmth for the children and the meaning of life in our family.

Thank you for once again overcoming your own laziness, persisting in going to the gym to exercise, and maintaining a healthy diet! I feel this is a display of strong willpower!

Thank you, my dear Michael. Mom loves that you share things happening at school with me immediately! I can feel the excitement and happiness in your eyes when you mentioned shaking hands with your teacher! Being respected and treated equally by an esteemed teacher, for a 14-year-old boy, must be a joyful thing! It's a trust and affirmation among men!

When you mentioned the bad influence of pranks among classmates, Mom could feel your concern. I'm glad you didn't just stand by but empathized with the situation. You've gained valuable experience, like not acting impulsively and considering the consequences before doing something! This makes Mom feel that you've truly grown up, learned to take responsibility for your actions! Also, it's crucial that you've learned to grow from others' experiences. Mom believes this is an important method for our growth into intelligent individuals! Congratulations on finding this method! Take heed, make necessary changes, and strive where lacking! Mom hopes you'll always remember these wise rules of life!

Thank you, Michael. Mom is pleased that you have plans for your vacation. When you confidently told me about focusing on piano, French, and something else (I'm sorry, Mom's memory is failing suddenly!), I felt you truly understand learning is for yourself! Setting goals at this moment means you'll need effective methods to achieve them. Mom believes you'll create a proper and specific schedule!

Once again, thank you. When I offered suggestions, you accepted them immediately, apologized, reflected, and even said you'd double-check in the future. Mom is happy; this is an efficient and useful way of communication. You understand that by pointing out these details, I make you aware of issues you might not notice. Then, you decide if and how you want to change. Mom believes you'll grow to the fullest! In summary, Mom is here. If you need help, tell me. If certain things I do make you uncomfortable, please inform me! We can both become better! Our family will be filled with even more love, I believe. This will be the atmosphere we all cherish!

Nathan, Mom wants to thank you. You noticed Mom wasn't feeling well and immediately made her some vitamin C water. Mom felt your care and love!

Today, making the Christmas tree was done with special dedication. The tree we made looks incredibly beautiful. Mom finds it unbelievable!

At this moment, in the quiet of late night, there's a faint breathing of my sons. My heart is peaceful and serene! Love you all! Everything is just right!"